Couples come to therapy for many reasons: to improve the quality of their relationship, to navigate questions of intimacy, commitment, or parenting, or because they’re caught in the same painful fights again and again. Some are recovering from frustration, conflict, or infidelity and wondering whether the relationship can be repaired. Others have simply grown apart and want to find their way back to each other.
In couples work, I help partners slow down the cycles that leave them feeling unheard, and develop new ways of communicating and understanding one another. We work to resolve old hurts while building the trust and curiosity that let a relationship grow.
I am affirming of LGBTQ+, kink, and poly/open relationships, and I welcome couples of all configurations.
As a clinical psychologist licensed in California and Oregon, I offer couples therapy entirely by telehealth — which also makes it easier for partners with busy or mismatched schedules to attend together.
Telehealth therapy across California & Oregon. If this sounds like what you’re looking for, I’d be glad to hear from you.